xoxo, ur favorite crybaby
You should be buying from your favorite SWs now.
That’s how you can help. That’s how you can support us other than asking where we are moving to. Most of us don’t know
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My Vision Of Our Tumblr Replacement
I started on Tumblr soon after it was created with a vanilla blog. Since then, hardly a day has gone by that Tumblr wasn’t a part of my life. I have made excellent friends on Tumblr over the years. In fact, MOST of my friends came from relationships I made via Tumblr. The precious, bubbly cupcake that is in my bed? Tumblr. So you can imagine how painful Tumblr’s announcement has been for me.
I love seeing the marginalized communities that are shunned elsewhere on Planet Earth have a safe place to exist and be themselves. It always made me smile when I see a Tumblr blogger ease out of their shells, steadfastly into the world.
Well, that shit is no more.
As some of you may have noticed I started a community effort to rescue these communities. I want everyone involved because it will be our garden, our club, our safe space to be ourselves.
And the new site (name to be withheld until we have something to show) is not just for kinksters, I want vanillas too; artists, witches, horror writers, brewmeisters, budtenders, book sluts, fandoms of all types, beat poets, wilderness photographers, Burners, vampire hunters, Dungeons and Dragons players, and rocket scientists. Hell, I want people who just want to blog about cats and cabins in the woods.
What we won’t tolerate are bullies, minors, Nazis (and their fucked up allies), abusers or trolls. They can fuck right off to a cesspool of their choice.
I am putting up the cash to get this started PLUS I am making this a community effort, that is why I am being so transparent about the process with our Discord planning group. Yes, it is chaos. We have taken on an INSANE project to get done in less than 2 weeks. Well, 9 days now.
This isn’t my first rodeo. I am actively trying to keep my anonymity as long as I can, but I know it will soon be spugged out in due order soon. You will then see what I have done in the past and learn about a very vanilla project that has been near and dear to my heart. You have probably heard of it and maybe even participated!
The beta site will not be perfect. It will be good but not perfect. Hell, we have been suffering with “far from perfect” with Tumblr now for years. It is my hope that our community can put up with our rough edges for a little while.
Where we are tonight is pretty good. We have selected a host, got our software loaded, installed the Linux packages required and are now getting those packages to play nice with one another. We had it working for a bit until a small issue with the registration page required some elbow work.
I am working on the branding and marketing with a bunch of really smart pervs in our Discord group. I am really proud of all of our volunteers and want to thank them all.
If you want to volunteer or simply eat popcorn and watch the porn riots, please use this invite link: https://discord.gg/jVempgb
Remember, Discord is just the site we are using for planning, not the actual site we are moving to.
Many of you have asked about the Library For Kinksters, it will be archived and placed on the now site.
We plan to allow you to import your Tumblr blog over to our new site but Tumblr may have other ideas. Other services have been using Tumblr’s API for exporting and now Tumblr now seems to be shutting down that API functionality.
That is all for now. Keep your heads held high and remember you are ALL FUCKING AMAZING PEOPLE!
- Dominant Life
P.S. Please reblog the shit out of this. Santa may drop a slutty elf off at your house for Christmas!
P.P.S. Oh and pirates. I really want pirates on the site too!
i wanna be cuddled and babied and made to feel safe and small. i want check-ins and being asked, “how’s my little girl?” i want rules and to have to ask permission, and i want repercussions when i don’t do as i’m told. i want to be reminded that i’m not in charge.
FYI
Pretty young girls who are damaged and have low self-esteem and who need to be used and abused to feel validated and stable and happy and who are obedient to a fault and need nice mean men to control them completely are an absolute treasure and should be treated like garbage and then cuddled and told how fucking pretty they are and that they’re good girls. Period.
How to Look After Your Puppy
[Inspired by pantherkitti’s note on Fetlife. But tailored toward the puppy’s, not the kittens, since we needs lovin’ too.]
1. Run your fingers through their hair. Include nails, gently, along the scalp.
2. Petting. Remember petting. Take your time. Turn it into a massage.
3. Collars, bracelets, pretty presents with a mark of your ownership should be presented when they are being good.
4. Offer chocolate, and tea, whenever they bake up a batch of frownies.
5. A big cushion, or lots of little cushions in a nest, makes a great resting place for your pup.
6. A bowl full of their favourite candy will remove any grumpus.
7. Angry pups have one default “reset” button… treats. Now, you just have to coax your pup out to give them the treat…
8. Call them pet names, because they like to be reminded they are yours.
9. Whenever you pass by them, give them a scritch behind the ears before moving on.
10. Treat your puppy to their favourite drink. Chocolate milk, warm tea, flavoured water; put it in their favourite bowl.
11. Training is good, treats are better. Reward your puppy any time they do something good.
12. Regular walkies, even just inside the house, make your puppy happy. A happy pup is a loyal pup.
13. Chew toys in their favourite colour are a guaranteed way to make them happy.
14. Add pretty charms to their collar. For rewards, for fun, for no reason at all.
15. Play fetch! Throw their favourite toys for added fun.
16. Wrap things up, watch their face light up as you tell them they can open it… with their mouths.
17. Remember which stuffed toys, chew toys, and books are their favourite. Set up a den filled with these things and a bowl of their favourite candy.
18. Scritches. Tummy, back, ears, all over.
19. When you see them yawn, it’s time to pull out the comfy blanket.
20. Take time to listen to your puppy, find out their favourite places so you can take them whenever they’re sad.
21. A car ride where they can stick their head out the window will always, always make everything better.
22. Biting, growling, scratching; during play or sex, is a way of them saying they approve. You’re liked.
23. A large collection of chew toys within reach, at all times, is essential.
24. Lots of kisses, over faces, noses, paws, always important.
25. Take them out on coffee dates, order their favourite drink. Sit and people watch.
26. PLAY FIGHTS!
27. Gnawing on you is their way of letting you know they’re happy. Let the chewing happen.
28. Pamper. Bathe your puppy, swaddle them in blankets, put on their favourite film.
29. Get them to bark their answers, as much as possible.
30. Let puppy choose where they want to fall asleep. Whether it’s at your feet, or snuggled in your arms. Their choice will make them happiest.
I try to only post porn, because that’s what I use tumblr for, but i felt a need to share this! 🐶
So if i let chu put your cock in my littlest hole, chu promise santa will bring me extra presents? 👉👈
Speak Up Kiddo
This is a friendly reminder that D-types are neither mind readers, nor empaths. We can no more glean your worries, desires, or hopes without your help, than we can perform our roles without you.
Nearly every day I get inbox questions looking for advice, and the advice is so often the same:
That thing you just told me? Go and tell your Caregiver that. They are not going to act all scary or think less of you if you do. If they are a good Caregiver, they will appreciate the communication. It is the only way that this problem is going to get solved.
If you go to your Caregiver with useful information for your dynamic, and he reacts in one of those ways you were concerned about, it may be time to go find a different Caregiver. Without available channels of good communication being open, you’re likely spinning your heels in a relationship that isn’t going to go too many good places, or last very long.
Thank you for reading this kiddo. Now go apply it to your own life, and do what you know needs to be done.
JerseyDaddy🌹
now @ouronelittlekingdom - www.ouronelittlekingdom.tumblr.com
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if your blog was wrongly terminated in the latest tumblr bs please comment on here so I can add your blog to the list.
if your blog wasn’t wrongly terminated, please share this so we can try to connect to everyone who was booted.
@ditsydaisyy can now be found @ditsy-daisy
@bushleaguejunky can now be found @bush-league-junky
@n0bran0panties (sp) can now be found @n0bra-n0pantiez
@grimygurl can now be found @grimysgoneagain
@crimsongoddess can now be found @crimsonrises
@youvebeenwarned can now be found @y0uvebeenwarned
@lasciviousdepravity can now be found @lascivi0us-depravity
@cumdolli is now @dolli-heart
@muttdio is now @diomuttley
@doe-lita-haze is now @g0th-lilly
@realreverendrape is now @realreverendrape2
@insatiablegarbage is now @insatiablegarbage2
@sluttiestslut is now @sluttiestslutty
@onelittlekingdom is now @ouronelittlekingdom
@fluffypinktail is now @fluffypinktail-is-mad
@thedarkbasement is now @mr-dark-basement
@theslaughterclub is now @clubcarnage
more can be found in the notes, and i will continue adding when I can/when they come up.
@littleprincessem is now @litttleprincessem
For those unaware because staff isn’t saying it
Tumblr was deemed too full of inappropriate content to be allowed to be downloaded from the app store.
It has this “inappropriate” problem because of rampant porn ad bot accounts. The old solutions were bots to detect image sets with nsfw content, the automatically enabled safe mode, tag filtering for mobile, and wide takedowns of nsfw bots based on words used (that’s why their messages are full of numbers and symbols, to evade this)
Tumblr released their own bot supposedly capable of wiping the ad bots, but it’s taking down many popular blogs, possibly due to sheer amounts of posting or sheer amounts of ad bots in their notes. This bot was likely rushed to be put out.
You are more likely to be accidentally flagged if you post external links, as well. If your acct is taken down you CAN get it back, but it’s a pain. E-mail tumblr support for help with this. It takes down side blogs with the main ones.
I’ll be halting posts for about a week or until this problem is fixed.